Wednesday, May 16, 2007

Have You Ever...

Gone along with your life, having adjusted to the changes, having made up your mind that what happened was for the best, when out of the blue the person who forced the changes on you is standing right in front of you?

I have. As a very good friend of mine said, yesterday was a day full of ghosts.

I was driving home from work yesterday with my radio blasting (it wasn't Bach this time though), when I pass the ex boyfriend (yes that one) walking down the side of the road.

Choice..... offer him a ride or continue on?

After 2 quick seconds of calculations, of thinking that my life is so much better these days, that I don't need to open that door again - I passed him and went on.

I know. It was just a ride. To everyone else.

5 comments:

Billy said...

maybe you, instead of passing him by,should have ran him over lol :)

Odat said...

lol at billy's comment....
But good for you...glad you passed him....just shows that you're going in the right direction!!!!
Peace

curmudgeon said...

Should have honked and waved.

heartinsanfrancisco said...

Good for you, Deb. It was a test. You passed. Take comfort in your own strength.

(Although I also considered that you might have run him over.)

Deb said...

I agree with all of you. :-)

Next time I'll honk and wave as I'm running him over.. hehe